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Sunday, March 4, 2012

Kronisme [Cronysme]

Kronisme. Satu benda, nope, bukan benda, ia adalah sejenis penyakit yang membawa masalah kepada komuniti. Memang masalah besar punya. Terutama dalam pemilihan pemimpin, ketua, dan sebagainya. Sebagai seorang budak yang hampir 20 tahun hidup kat muka bumi yang berlekuk-lekuk ni,*aku dah mula terima angka 20 itu* seringkali aku berhadapan dengan situasi yang terdapatnya unsur-unsur kronisme ni. Tidak kurang juga, parents aku serta sibling aku yang kerap menceritakan isu kronisme di mana-mana.

Merujuk kepada wikipedia.com, menurut Kamus Dewan, 'Kronisme bermaksud amalan mengutamakan atau mementingkan teman rapat atau kawan-kawan rapat dalam pelantikan sesuatu jawatan, pemberian sesuatu projek dan sebagainya.


Benda alah ni jadi masalah pada aku terutamanya bila nak pilih ahli kumpulan untuk buat presentation, sejak sekolah menengah lagi. Memang payah dan menyakitkan. Pengalaman aku sendiri, pernah seorang cikgu sarankan kitorang supaya buat group discussion, but at the end of the discussion, each person must come out with different ideas and different result. Habis je cikgu briefing, semua pakat kalut cari partner.

Ada yang otak dia bijak, cari partner yang memang excellent student, kaki buat kerja sekolah dan sebagainya. Tapi kena yang mentaliti rendah, pilih partner atas dasar, "kalau aku tak pilih dia, dia tak nak kawan aku pulak." atau "dia besfren aku sejak lahir kot, so, sehidup semati haruslah bersama kan." dan tafsiran-tafsiran seperti ini amatlah tipikal dan tertutup.

So now, why do you care about your partner's life or appearance or even their popularity? You are given a task, and your responsibility is to complete it perfectly with your partners. Now tell me, what kind of perfect works your partner can do? Can they do the preparation well? Can they give you superb ideas or something? Can they do all the work and tasks together with you?

OR, they just be your BFF but can do nothing on the task?

The main thing that you should pay a lot of attention on is, the task itself. Not your BFF's feelings when they're not in the same group with you, not your BFF's expectation when you're not choosing them to be your group members, nor their intention not to choose you to be their group members. Nothing like that.

Since the task is kind of responsibility, all you have to do is to give all you have to complete the task. Tell me one thing, are you gonna let your lovey-dovey BFF to be part of your group members, at the same time, you knew that they can do nothing except, arguing about ideas that came out from your other group members. Well, let's say that is the nature of your BFF, condemning people's ideas. In fact, they can't even understand what are the purpose of the task given. Do you really want them to be your group members? Seriously?

I highly recommend you not to look at only a side. Look at their abilities and advantages at the first place, before you choose them to be your partner. Instead of thinking that you're gonna lose your BFF if you don't choose them, you better think that you're might lose a lot of marks if you choose your BFF that naturally can do nothing.

Well, that's the case of having some lovey-dovey BFF but in fact they don't really perform well in academic.


Let's look at other situation, when you're having a group of BFF that 24/7 reading books, completing homework, hardworking and perform very well in their academic and tasks given. And the group is of course, including you, very popular among teachers and other students.

Is it possible that you guys can't work together as a partner, or as a group even though each of you are loving each other, respecting each other or even taking care of each other?The answer is, YES.

Each person have different ways of thinking and giving ideas. And yes, they do have really different ways of accepting other people's ideas. In fact, some people are not really good in giving ideas, but they are really master on elaborate the ideas given since they read a lot, and know a lot of things, for example general knowledge. And these makes them different, that sometime they might hard to work with each other since they've no chemistry at all.

That's why, when choosing a person, or a group members, make sure that you can work really well with them, and they can give their all in order to complete any tasks given, and you guys can accept each others ideas. The most important thing is, do not let any SLEEPING PARTNER to be part of your group because it will make you yourself, and other members feel burdened, and this can make your work going to be 'a piece of blank paper' which is real bad for your group. Because of the only one person, you guys might not be able to work properly, having a hard time thinking about that person.

SO, since I'm a student, and of course, I have a lot of assignments and presentations to do, and I did a lot of it during last sem, I gain a lot of experiences choosing a group members. I just want to share with you guys, and to tell you the importance of having a good and productive group members. Since you guys are also a student, so bare in mind that, cooperation and commitment is something that you have to build, and cronyism is something that you really need to avoid since it gives nothing advantage to you. Seriously.

Well then, that's enough for today. Dan tiba-tiba aku terfikir, apahal aku tukar-tukar bahasa ni? Seriously, aku sangat lemah dalam berbahasa secara normal. Sebab aku bukan budak debat. Kan? Tengok bahasa pun tau dah :D

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